A well-prepared summer first aid kit keeps your family having fun in the sun, on the beach, over hiking trails, or wherever you adventure.
Start with a store-bought pre-made kit already stocked with adhesive bandages, gauze, tape and small packets of antibiotic ointment; it is cost-effective.
Put that kit in a small comfortable backpack to take on trips. Hang it visibly in the closet as a reminder.
CAUTION: Do not leave it in your car in the summer. The heat can melt the plastic adhesives and deactivate the chemicals.?Look inside the premade kit for anything that could be missing.
Consider adding:
⢠1% hydrocortisone ointment
⢠Calamine lotion
⢠Liquid bandage â A medical ânail polishâ or spray that puts a waterproof seal on small cuts on the skin. This is great for trips involving sand and water.
⢠Water bottle â For irrigation of wounds.
⢠Electrolyte packs â Add this in your water bottle if you need more oral hydration than you brought.
⢠Epi Pen and albuterol inhaler â Bring this if someone has an underlying condition for anaphylaxis and asthma.
⢠Ibuprofen or acetaminophen chew tabs â This can also be dosed for adults and is less heavy and bulky than carrying the liquid bottles.
⢠Bug spray with 30% DEET â This spray works against mosquitos and ticks.
⢠Ice packs â Purchase the packs that activate when twisted. This can help with acute sprains, sunburn, and over-heating.
⢠Oxymetazoline hcl nasal solution â Use intra-nasally to help nosebleeds.
⢠LED flashlight/headlight – Helps in the dark, but also if you need to remove ticks or splinters.
⢠Tweezers, scissors, magnifying glass, alcohol wipes â To help with the above.
⢠ACE wrap & finger splints
⢠Inexpensive plastic rain capes â These can keep you dry during summer storms, but can also be placed on the ground as a clean surface to work on an injury.
Plan ahead for good hydration during the summer. When exercising in hot conditions, drink 4- 8 oz of cold electrolytes or sports drinks every 15-20 min.
This means drinking 2-3 cups cold liquid every hour. Control condensation by having drinks partially frozen and in a zip-lock bag before placing them in your backpack.
STAFFORD â Do you want to own a car repair business?
Shacklefordâs Garage at 451 Brooke Road in Stafford County is on the market and judging by the look of the photos, it’s kind of a fixer-upper.
The business established in 1964 is for sale. The property, with improvements, is valued at $114,300, according to Stafford County property assessments.
It boasts a fenced lot and a cinder block building with three vehicle bays and lifts.
The business currently specializes in repairing foreign and domestic vehicles, and comes with a team of mechanics in place, according to the listing.
The sale is being conducted by Coldwell Banker Elite Commercial in Fredericksburg.
Katherine Mercurio Gotthardt is a poetry and prose writer who has lived in Prince William County since 1999. She has published six books and is working on a seventh. Learn more about her at KatherineGotthardt.com, and follow her work on Facebook by searching #KatherinesCoffeehouse.
By Katherine Mercurio Gotthardt
Letâs talk about what happens when youâre motivated by anger.
One day, a king invited his enemy to a banquet at his castle. âLetâs make peace,â he said. âCome and celebrate my eldest sonâs birthday with us.â
His enemy agreed, not knowing if the king truly had intentions of making peace, but he figured it would be worth the try.
In actuality, the king intended to poison his enemy at the banquet and show his young son how enemies were to be dealt with.
As they sat at the table, the king poured drinks himself and directed the servants to pass them around in such a way that his enemy received the poisoned drink. When it came time to toast, the enemy stood up, raised his goblet and said, âA toast â to our newfound peace and to this boy who will be a man someday. Boy, give me your goblet. Let us drink from the same brew your father has poured for me. We will share our drinks just as our kingdoms will share peace.â
The father, horrified, stood and said, âNo. Share your drink with me instead, as the boy has not been part of our feud. Come, I insist.â
âNoble king,â said the enemy, âwhat a grand idea. I shall instead share it with both, to ensure peace now and for future generations.â
The enemy then poured some of his poisoned drink into the boyâs cup and the kingâs cup.
âA toast to peace!â cried the enemy, raising his goblet and smiling.
âTo peace!â shouted the guests.
And thatâs where the story ends.
You see, it doesnât matter whether the king or the boy or the enemy drank the poisoned drink. If they didnât all drink together, the enemy would become suspicious and remain untrusting, forever inhibiting true peace. If the king drank and died, the kingdom would fall into ruin. If the king said nothing and just pretended to drink, at the very least, his son would die. And if he admitted to poisoning the drink, war would surely ensue.
Thatâs what anger does. While it might poison your enemy (real or imagined), it also poisons those you love and yourself. While you might not drop dead at a banquet table, you most certainly cannot live your best life if your motivations are rooted in anger.
I once heard that anger is a secondary emotion, the result of combined, deeper emotions like fear mixed with hurt or hurt mixed with sadness. Anger is a manifestation of those emotions and the situations that caused them. Anger is a demonstration that whatever created the initial emotions has not been resolved.
In most instances, Iâve found this to be true. Iâve also found it to be true that if we nurture our anger and use it as motivation, that motivation can be powerful. But anger, by definition, is a negative. The Oxford dictionary says anger is âa strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility.â Unless anger is addressed at its base level, the level of those underlying combinations of emotions, it remains a destructive force.
So how do you ensure anger doesnât kill you and those around you? Writer and community leader Cindy Brookshire has a system. She says, âResentment comes from something you think you didn’t get in the past. Anger comes from something you think you’re not getting now. Fear comes from something you think you’re not going to get in the future. Deal with your feelings.â She suggests doing this:
1. Write down your feelings.
2. Deal with them, even if you need help from someone else.
3. Write down the things that make you feel angry.
4. Burn the paper in something contained, like a fire pit.
5. Whatever issues make you angry, perform one positive action each day to resolve those issues.
Once you do this and anger is no longer in the mix, youâll discover your motivations are a lot less muddy and you can get on with your life. Youâll become happier, as will those around you. And as a result, youâll become inspired to continue that upward momentum towards the positive and reaching your goals. New doors will open, revelations will unfold and you will find yourself evolving.
I hand
a goblet of poison
to my grey enemy,
his fingers quietly closing
around the stone base,
touching my own.
How the chill runs through.
âNo, you take the first sip.â
And I, foolish,
raise it to my lips,
pretend to drink and swallow.âMore,â says my enemy.
âYouâve not had enough.
Pour it in like you mean it.
Iâm sure you can get a refill.
Am I right?â
Until next time,
Katherine
Katherine Mercurio Gotthardt is a poetry and prose writer who has lived in Prince William County since 1999. She has published six books and is working on a seventh. Learn more about her at KatherineGotthardt.com, and follow her work on Facebook by searching #KatherinesCoffeehouse.
By Katherine Mercurio Gotthardt
Ever sit down to do something and suddenly feel a lack of inspiration? What is that, anyway?
You had a great idea. You were excited and motivated. Then poof. Gone. Itâs like the breath just got knocked out of you. There doesnât seem to be a particular reason why. It just kind of happens.
The keyword here is breath.
If you look at the history of the word inspiration, youâll see it dates back to the 1300s and refers to immediate influence by a god or gods that breathe into a mortal to motivate them to do something creative while guiding them along the way.
Inspiration is the breath of life, physically, spiritually and emotionally. Artists thrive on it, but so do good leaders and those who want to control their own destinies. So thereâs good reason why losing inspiration can feel like you just got sucker punched.
Hereâs how to get inspiration back.
- Get somewhere private, or at least where you feel a sense of privacy.
- Lower or close your eyes.
- Listen to yourself inhale and exhale.
- Feel your stomach and chest as you inhale and exhale. You can do this by putting a hand on your upper abdomen or just focusing on that part of your body.
- Breathe deeply and slowly in and out for 30-60 seconds, continuing to listen to your body. If other thoughts intrude, donât fight them, but dismiss them gently.
- Visualize someone or something physically breathing into you. Feel the air they bring through your nose, throat and lungs.
- Open your eyes, take a deep breath, exhale and do what it is you sat down to do. Donât wait. Just start.
Why does this work?
Many times when we feel weâve lost our inspiration, itâs that we have suddenly shut ourselves in or down. Whenever we do this, our breathing goes to hell. We breathe too fast or not at all. Itâs almost like a kind of anxiety.
âI canât do this. This wonât come out the way I want. I suck.â All those negative thoughts break in and trample on what should be one of our best creative moments. When that happens, we literally stop breathing correctly. This is a physical reaction to an emotional response, and one perpetuates the other.
Iâm not saying this is the only way to bring inspiration back. But it is a quick, convenient path back to the right mindset. Certainly, if you have time and inclination to walk in the woods, mediate or take a warm bath and those work for you, go for it. But at the heart of all those activities is breath. Donât forget that. You donât want to end up distracting yourself with other activities, or you could end up losing focus and procrastinating. Â
When it comes down to it,
words are breath,
lifegivers of the creative,
the inhale and exhale of cool air
through the nostrils,
into the heart,
the very stuff of heaven.
Ask not from where the breeze flows.
It doesnât matter.
Feel it on your shoulders?
Itâs turning you,
facing you in the direction
of the life youâre making.
Let it run its soft fingers
across your skin.
Breathe.Â
Until next time,
Katherine
It is estimated that one in three Americans suffer from at least one mental health issue, but research shows that women are at a much higher risk to struggle with a mental health disorder throughout her lifetime than men. Here are a few ways to increase your mental wellness.
1. Talk to your physician
As a first step, talk to your primary care physician about your mental health goals and suggested screenings. He or she will be able to help you form an initial plan and refer you to any specialists as necessary.
2. Start exercising
Not only will exercise improve your overall health, but exercise also releases endorphins, the feel-good brain chemicals that instantly improve your mood. Talk to your physician before starting any new exercise routine.
3. Explore meditation
Meditation has the power to calm the mind, open the heart, and heal the soul. Sounds like itâs worth a shot, right? Start small. Set aside 3 minutes for meditation. Concentrate on your breath.
4. Up your sleep
The National Sleep Foundation recommends 7-9 hours of sleep for adults. Sleep is critical in maintaining mental wellness and can significantly impact your ability to regulate moods and process emotional information and experiences. If you are not getting the recommended amount of sleep, try going to bed 10 minutes earlier each night and gradually building up to the 7 to 9 hours of recommended sleep.
5. Practice gratitude
Did you know that expressing gratitude is related to your self-esteem and well-being? So, look at the bright side and thank the universe for the things that make you happy â everything from your dog to a good cup of coffee.
And, remember, if you may find yourself feeling persistently sad or anxious, unable to sleep, irritable or hopeless, talk to your doctor or a mental health professional.
Katherine Mercurio Gotthardt is a poetry and prose writer who has lived in Prince William County since 1999. She has published six books and is working on a seventh. Learn more about her at KatherineGotthardt.com, and follow her work on Facebook by searching #KatherinesCoffeehouse.
By Katherine Mercurio Gotthardt
My parents used to say about people who werenât motivated to do something necessary, âTheyâre fine. They just need a kick in the pants.â
That was the censored version, the one my mom demanded. My dad had other ways to say it that she didnât approve of. We grew up with a certain amount of acceptable censorship because my mother didnât want us âtalking vulgar.â Except we lived in Massachusetts, so it was âvulgah.â
âMom, is âbuttâ a bad word?â
âKathy, donât be vulgah.â
So âpantsâ it was. Never mind that it seemed to be okay to kick someone. Life is full of contradictions.
Eventually, I settled into my independence and into speaking the way I felt most comfortable â which was often vulgar. I donât think I thought too much about self-censoring until I had kids. Thatâs when I quickly learned I didnât want my kids to sound what I was taught to be disrespectful, so I edited my words, at least until they were adults.
At this stage in life, Iâve reached a comfortable, happy medium, somewhere between both my parentsâ versions of acceptable diction.
What motivates you to make life changes, or at least try?
For some changes, the motivation might seem obvious. âI want to lose weight so I can be healthier.â Or, âI want to change jobs so I can earn more money.â But what about the more complex things, the not-so-obvious, the quiet, underlying cause of action? What is really kicking you in the pants?
To get to these deeper answers, I suggest an activity I used to have my students do. I call it the Why Circle.
The premise is simple. You know how little kids ask âwhyâ about everything? You do something similar. You keep asking âwhyâ like a little kid until you get to a place where all the answers come back to the one before, in a circular manner.
So, for example, you say you want to change jobs to make more money. Why?
I want to afford more of the things I like.
Why?
They make me happy.
Why?
They make me feel free.
Why?
Because I donât feel trapped.
Why?
Because Iâm not poor, and being poor makes me feel trapped.
Why?
Because when I was little, we were poor, and we were stuck in a bad neighborhood.
Why?
Because my parents couldnât get good jobs that paid enough.
You see how this works? Youâre digging to the very essence of your motivation now, the real reason behind what propels you.
Why is this important to know?
Because when the going gets tough, youâll need something more solid to fall back on, something more than, âI want to make money,â or âI want to wear a little black dress to the cocktail party.â
Thereâs more to it than that. Thereâs more to YOU than that.
Figure out what it is, and youâre more likely to stick to the path that gets you to your goals. Because in the end, even the most superficial among us are not truly superficial. Thereâs a reason behind the motivation.
Find what that is, and youâll find even more motivation. And that will inspire you to continue your journey.
What is that
against my back?
The flat palm
of a convincing breeze
that urges idle swings to sway,
creeking old chains
in the empty playground.
Kinetic energyâ
it makes the world go âround.
There is no better way
to stay ungrounded.
Okay. Now fly.
Until next time,
Katherine